Off the grid, just a little.
On the gridDrunk
Kick
Snare
Hat
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The further a dot sits from its line, the further that hit is off the grid (drawn at 2× so you can see it). The snare is +26ms, 15% of a 16th note behind the beat. Kick a little early and snare a little late pull against each other, and that tug is the feel.
Go deeper: per-instrument timing (ms), swing, anticipation
Chord anticipation
These amounts are at 100% wobble. The Wobble control above scales all of them at once.